TMI Tuesday

From the archives:

1. Why do you like sexting or virtual sex (chatting, skype, etc.)?

I used to do a fair amount of chat back in the days when things like IRC were a thing.  I enjoyed virtual sex, but it usually devolved into me just telling stories, which is why I started the blog because I felt like I got off more on telling the stories than virtual sex anyway, and it's easier to tell a long, involved story in a blog than in a chat window.  Plus, typing while diddling is tough.

2. When you’re about to “get busy”…get down & dirty, you know, have sex, do you like to be undressed by your lover or take off all your clothes by yourself?

Depends on how submissive I'm feeling.  Sometimes it's nice to be undressed.  Sometimes it's more fun if you're both so ready to go that you just rip the clothes off yourself.  Sometimes it's fun to keep the clothes on.

But there is something extremely sexy about either doing a strip-tease for your partner or for them to slowly, sensually undress you while you are powerless to stop them.  Again, depends on how submissive I'm feeling.  Also, what clothes I'm wearing.  If I'm wearing something which isn't fun to take off, I just want to get naked.  But if I'm wearing something fun, by all means, undress me and caress me.

3. What is the most desperate thing you’ve done for sex?

Offered it to someone with whom I didn't really want to have sex.  As unlikely as it sounds, I have been in situations where I had no other options but people I didn't care for at all.  But the vagina wants what the vagina wants.

4. Libido booster drugs for women (viagra for women) will hit the market soon. Are you interested in trying them? Will you take the new drug(s)? Why or why not?
(If you are a man, would you like for your female lover to take such a drug?)

Why does it have to assume that I need to be a man for my partner to be a woman?

I wouldn't take them because my libido is already pretty stoked and it doesn't seem like I need any help.  I guess if I were offered one, I might take it to see what it did, but if all it did was increase my sex drive, I can't see the point for me.  I need a pill which helps me enjoy sex more, not a pill which makes me more receptive to it.

As far as a partner, if it were something they needed, I'd support it.

"Lady Viagra" is an odd thing to think about.  Viagra isn't really a sex-drive enhancer; it just makes you hard.  I'm not sure what the female equivalent of "makes you hard" is.  If it makes you cum more easily, that sounds great.  If it's to treat female sexual disfunction of a kind which makes it impossible to have sex in the same way that erectile disfunction affects men, that I'm all for the drug and I hope it helps a lot of women, but I don't need it.  I can have sex, I just have issues with arousal making me hurt.  It's possible that taking this pill would put me in a lot of pain.

Bonus: If it were legal in your country/community to visit a “sex box” would you?

Probably not, because I'm not terribly interested in visiting a prostitute in any circumstance.  I have nothing against it, but I'm just not interested in it at the moment.